Self Improvement

Self Improvement

No one has the right to tell you what to do

No person has the right to condemn you on how you repair your heart because no one knows how much you are hurting. One thing with pain is that you can’t determine how it hits you or how you deal with it; it suddenly comes like a wave of emotions that you can’t handle and […]

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They don’t always have to know

Don’t always tell people what you are going to do; do it and shock them and after shocking them stay silent and move onto the next project. Keep shocking. Keep enjoying. You don’t always have to tell people what you are up to unless they ruin your plans. When I was in high school I […]

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You can’t change people

One can’t change people, so don’t drive yourself crazy trying; instead just change how you deal with them, or just stay away from them. People change because they want to and not because of our efforts.  I have had a fiance who was a drug addict; I didn’t find out on time because I wasn’t […]

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Walk away when you are not needed

The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment you absolutely walk away and never look back. People never seem to cherish what they have until they lose it. I can remember how my first relationship went down the drain. At some points, I wake up in the […]

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Staying at home is very important

Kids are trying to do everything they can in order to enjoy their time. But you need to realize is that quarantine is challenging for them. They want to go out and play, explore the world and just have fun. But not all kids are able to do that, and it’s all due to this […]

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Why You Should Stop Trying To Be Perfect

According to Indonesian author Toba Beta, practice doesn’t make perfect, but practice reduces the imperfection. At some points in life, the drive to do quality work has us run up against the perfectionist problem. It can become so serious that it becomes harder to let anything go without trimming off all the edges.  The same […]

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Life Is Too Short

Happiness is synthetic. Either you create it for yourself, don’t or equally destroy it. The one that lasts is earned by the kind of habits you have. Those who are supremely happy have been able to hone habits that help them to maintain joyful moods day in and out. To permanently adopt a new habit, […]

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Why You Can’t Remember Most Of The Things You Have Done

So you think you are supposed to know the advice to give to a friend who is finally going to college. You have been there and done that, but you cannot quite place a finger on how you actually pulled it off. It is the same way you may not remember the title of this […]

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You Can’t Be Like Everyone Else And That’s A Good Thing

Today’s world is mostly defined by trends and new common opinions. As such, everyone appears to be following one particular trajectory that makes it seem as though not jumping on the bandwagon is a sin. There is a certain pressure that life and everyone around puts on you, to make you become one particular person. […]

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Quit Blindly Chasing Happiness

Life Is Not Just One But Also Short, So You Need To Enjoy It The lifespan of an average person is 78.7 years, and that’s actually if you are lucky enough. For the first 10 to 15 years of your life, you hardly know what you are doing. Once you reach 50, chances are you […]

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